This is for yesterday’s prompt, I left my square black yesterday and so this is my Day 2 of the June Photo Challenge.

These guys always make me #smile. They have the ability to make me feel so very angry and then laugh only 5 minutes later. I’m glad they don’t hold a grudge or stay angry for too long.

I remember this moment well, they were giggling about the dogs. The dogs wandered around them chewing on the grass and Snoopy (our blind dog) nearly head butted Isla.

I love the bond they have developed over the past few months, with each other and the pets too. I’m not saying they love all day long (they bicker) but it’s not as much as they used to and it’s definitely determined by the amount of sleep they get.

Anyone else struggling to get their kids asleep but 10pm? I think Noah came down, in protest, 8 times last night to say he couldn’t sleep.

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This is for yesterday’s prompt,...

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🌾 I adore this photo! Not sure what it is exactly: the colours, the wonky lines, the sun setting to the right or the children’s freedom. Or, all of it put together.

This was an ordinary moment captured on our dog walk, Sunday evening. It’s little moments like this, the accidental captures, that I love the most.

I had no idea at the time of taking it that I’d love it as much as I do. I can hear the #kiddies giggling and it makes me want to smile.

Well, it’s a late post. But I didn’t finish work until 10:30pm ish & I’ve been winding down.

I hope everyone had a lovely day.

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🌾 I adore this photo!...

Happy June everyone and here are the photo prompts for #mummyphotoaday, June photo challenge.

I’ve included lots of generic words as during lockdown there is quite a variation of photos. I love seeing how each person takes on the photo prompts, some absolutely stunning photos.

Don’t forget to use the hashtag #mummyphotoaday so I can share the photos throughout the month, but so others can find you and like or comment. It really is such a lovely community.

So, what is everyone doing for June?

Happy June everyone and here...

My favourite pics from May #mummyphotoaday, the fun photo a day photo challenge. Thank you to everyone who has taken part, so many amazing photos to choose from.

The photo is tagged, but left to right:
📷 @mummuddlingthrough
📷 @otisandus.blog
📷 @socalshopgirl384
📷 @van_life_family_
📷 @ceeleah_and_the_small_humans
📷 @norfolk_kinsfolk
📷 @beautifully_defected
📷 @newmummyblog
📷 @typicalmummy

I’ve really loved seeing photos from everyone that joined in: @sahrazade @shareyourplaywithme @beatrix.hendrix.and.me @confessionsofacrummymummy @adventuresstartathome @anywaytostayathome @chaos_at_leitrim @_lisaslife_ @happinessisasunbeam @themummyeditorial

All you have to do to join in with this photo challenge is use the hashtag #mummyphotoaday. Take the keyword from the photo prompts and use that in your caption. We’ve got a lovely community that enjoy seeing each others posts.

Thank you to everyone who joined in. Looking forward to June!

My favourite pics from May...

We went out with a bang for May! We had a day of socially distancing with #family.

Today is Nanny’s birthday, so we watched her open her presents on the driveway, with a good few metres distance. It was horrible not to be able to celebrate the day with her as we always do. We know we will soon and hopefully they can come and spend time in the garden with us soon, due to the new rules.

The kiddies get super sad when we leave families. It’s not nice but I think they understand why we can’t see them properly. Albeit they do not like it!

To cheer us up we played diggers in the fields surrounding my Mums new barn renovation project. No worries about socially distancing over there it is literally fields and fields. The kids loved zooming up and down on the dumper. I think it’s called.

Then we knocked on Great Grandma’s door to blow her a kiss and let her see the kiddies for a few minutes. It’s just so hard.

But, it was so lovely to see family today. Even if from afar and for a short time. We haven’t seen them in the flesh for around a month and it felt so nice.

Here’s to June and another month of lockdown. We’ve still got this!

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Yeah for the #weekend!! It seems to be the only time where tensions aren’t high and there is a calm amongst us.

We have no grand plans, obviously, but we do tend to get the dogs walked first thing (as it’s too hot later on) and then we do some gardening.

Yesterday I spent an hour pulling all the weeds and long grasses from the front garden. It looks so much neater now but I still have a lot of work to do.

I love this photo of us of all, we do not have many as we never sit still long enough 🤪 This is our family lockdown portrait though and it’s a nice memory: sunny days, rainbows and quality time together at home.

Do you have any special memories throughout this lockdown?

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What a great #friyay it’s been! We spent the morning “washing” the food shopping, then went for a nice big walk around Godmanchester meadows. It was a beautiful walk and nice as there was a breeze which cooled us down.

Yes, I did say wash the shopping. Is anyone else doing this? I basically Zoflora all of the food shopping as I unpack it. The actual shopping process takes a lot longer and now I’ve added an extra 30 mins with the clean. We just want to be sure it’s not harbouring anything. Peace of mind if nothing else.

Then this afternoon we let the kids have movie time. They’ve been getting too hot in the garden. It is super hot in the garden, it seems to be a little sun trap. Which I’m not complaining about.

Daddy then took the kiddies to the park to play croquet and I had a snooze in the sun.

All in all it’s been a beautiful day and chilled. Probably one of my favourite Fridays.

What did you get up to?

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R.I.P Grandad (1923-2013)

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Yesterday we said goodbye to Grandad, it was a very beautiful service full of loving words about Grandad and it was lovely to have the family together.

IMG_6657I have somehow managed to pull it together for the past few weeks since he left us, but on reflection I think it was all because I had the little ones to keep me going and not let me have the time to sit and dwell on what has actually happened. I thought I was doing OK yesterday, up until I saw Grandad in the car pull up outside their house with all his beautiful flowers around him. It is such an overpowering feeling, knowing he was just there in front of us.

There were flowers from Mum and Uncle Stephen saying “Dad”, a beautiful bunch of Lillies on top of his coffin from Grandma, a “Grandad” from me, my brother Carl and my sister Charlotte and he had a little arrangement of pink and blue flowers from Noah and Isla. They were perfect, but it broke my heart.

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The service was perfect, we took a very quiet and short drive to the church from their house and we walked Grandad into church. The last time I was in that church with Grandad he was walking me up the aisle – now we were walking him. The vicar said some kind words and prayers that I will remember for the rest of my life. Grandma wrote a beautiful piece about Grandads life: where he came from and what he did. His life in the RAF, the places he has seen and where he and Grandma first met: RAF Lyneham and they have been together for 48 years. How he was proud of his children, grand children and how in his later life loved playing aeroplanes with his great grandchildren. It was only 6 weeks ago he was sitting in their lounge and he spread his arms and blew a big raspberry whilst playing aeroplanes with Noah. Noah and Isla loved him so much, Isla has his big cheesey grin which I see every day.

Uncle Stephen wrote a piece about Grandad too and how he loved nature, that animals loved him as he did them and how his love of music comes from Grandad. It was lovely to hear some nice stories and some funny ones of Grandad that we can remember forever. He did love nature and his garden, he was always out walking when he was able. He would walk his dogs 3 times a day without fail and would spend hours upon hours in the garden after he retired. It is a beautiful garden and you can sit and watch the river at the bottom of the garden.

In true keeping with Grandads love of nature we were surrounded by sunshine, beautiful flowers and lots of white butterflies all day. When we left the church there was a jet black butterfly that flew over Grandad, then the first 2 rows of people behind Grandad (Mum, Grandma and Steve. Me, Carl and Charlotte) and flew off. We all knew that was Grandad showing us he was with us, supporting us through this mourning. It comforted me a lot.

I felt heart broken leaving the crematorium, I hated it. I didn’t want to leave him there, I didn’t want him to be alone and I still don’t. I just have to find comfort in the fact that although physically he is not with us, he is always in my head, my heart and all around me in other ways. When I play on my piano, I will think of Grandad as it was him and Grandma that encouraged me to learn. When I listen to classical music it will remind me of Grandad who had a love for it, along with Guinness and Cadbury’s Fruit & Nut. Lots of things will trigger memories and happy times, lots of things I will make sure Noah and Isla take on their life journeys too.

There was one thing that Grandad did that Noah does too and I am glad he does: Grandad used to scratch things, for example he would sit in the armchair and when concentrating on a TV programme you would notice him scratching the armrest of the chair over and over. Grandma had to put a blanket on the chair in the end and you can see where Grandad wore the fabric away over time. Well little Noah does this too, when he is nervous or concentrating, you can see his little fingers scratching. So every time he does that I will think of Grandad and I will make sure Noah knows he got that from him…

IMG_6682My uncle Stephen showed Isla a photo of Grandad yesterday afternoon and she pointed at him and said Grandad, I will make sure they never forget about him and what he meant to me and my family. She did proceed to search for him beyond the photo, looking behind the photo frame which upset me a lot but I know its because she doesn’t understand. Noah looks to the sky and says “Grandad is in the sky, he is watching us” so I hope he takes some comfort from that. I just cant believe he can’t speak to us anymore, he cant be with us anymore – no more funny Grandad jokes and silly noises… But we have them in our memories.

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One of the happy things of yesterday was the family being together, not just the immediate family but Grandads nephew from New Zealand made it to the funeral and Grandma’s sister and family too. It was great to have them there, just such a shame it was for the reason that it was. I love hearing about Grandad from other people, there are some beautiful comments in his memory book – neighbours talking about happy memories of him, my other Grandparents saying how he was a lovely man and my Great Aunt Lilian who wrote about how he helped her and was always there. That was Grandad, he was always there, he was always helpful and he would do whatever he could to help when he thought appropriate. He wasn’t an emotional man, he was a straight forward and matter of fact man – which as Uncle Stephen said in his writing, sometimes that is all you need.

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I think it is no great secret that Grandad was a huge part of my life and I will miss him incredibly, growing up he was the man who I could turn to for help and guidance, their home is a sanctuary to me. When I was younger Grandad and I spent a lot of time together: trips to the park, holidays or just sitting reading or enjoying music. He has a collection of Encyclopaedias that he would sit and read with me and I would learn all sorts of wonderful things. I loved playing hide and seek with Grandad, I always used to think I’d found the perfect hiding place but he would always find me. When I got older I used to stay at their house every Thursday, where he would always let me have the froth from the top of his Guinness and we would sit and watch Inspector Morse. Feeding the ducks at Grandma and Grandads house is a favourite past time that is now Noah & Isla’s favourite too and it was a perfect end to the day yesterday.

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3 Comments
  • Capture by Lucy
    August 21, 2013

    Thinking of you all at such a sad time. A real end of an era. Much love xxx

  • Donna@MummyCentral
    August 21, 2013

    He sounds like a really special man. Thinking of you all xxx

  • Donna Bird
    August 22, 2013

    Beautiful post for a beautiful man, you did really well on Tuesday Sonia, glad the day went well. You have some lovey photos here. I love the first one of your Grandad it shows him exactly how I would imagine him from what you have told me and I have read on your blog. Sending you love xxx

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